If you’ve decided to make your next BBW hookup a date to remember, there are certain things you need to have in mind before you take your lovely lady out. First off, you need to treat her like a queen, and shower her with affection like you would a supermodel. But since we’re not here today to talk about the things you should do, let’s focus our attention on the biggest perils to be avoided when taking a BBW out.

Peril #1: Planning The Date Around Food

Just because your BBW is a little overweight doesn’t mean she loves to stuff her mouth with food. Maybe she’s having trouble getting rid of some baby weight or maybe she’s got a condition that makes it difficult to shake off extra pounds. And even if she’s overweight for none of these reasons, that doesn’t mean she won’t act like a lady on your date, and eat like a little bird. Assuming that she’d rather have a juicy burger with greasy fries instead of a Cesar salad is disrespectful, and you should just not go there. Even if your date is going to include dining out, let her pick a place, and suggest other things you might do in addition to having a romantic dinner, such as seeing a movie or a live show.

Peril #2: Planning Passive Activities

BBWs love to dance, go hiking or ride their bikes through parks or busy downtown streets. Just because they carry a bit more junk in the trunk doesn’t mean they’re lazy or don’t enjoy outdoor activities. Make sure you check all your assumptions and stereotypes at the door before going to meet up with your BBW. The fact that you met your lady on a big women dating site doesn’t mean she spends every waking our browsing the web, watching Netflix or lounging around. You could have met her in a yoga class or planting flowers at the local community center, and it still wouldn’t have made a difference. Let her suggest what she wants to do, and be prepared for an active date.

Peril #3: Treating The Date Too Casually

BBW dating is like any other type of dating out there. If you want your BBW to feel like you really appreciate the fact that you’re on a date with her, you can’t treat the date with a laid back attitude you’d treat a trip to the grocery store. You need to dress appropriately, and if the date involves a fancy dinner, you’re expected to suit up just like you would if your date was a cover girl. Likewise, if you’re going on a hiking trip, your gear better not be all worn out. You need to look presentable regardless of where your date is taking place if you want to show your BBW there isn’t a place you’d rather be.