Some say that biker dating has it all since it can be described as thrilling, dynamic, and refreshing – all at the same time! There are, however, some downsides of it, as you can occasionally feel neglected, not interesting enough, or simply like the second best on rainy nights when your biker is not able to ride. This isn’t unusual at all, and certainly has a lot to do with their endless love for motorcycles that will always occupy number one position on their priority list, whether we like it or not. There are, however, some dating strategies that you can try with both biker men and women so we advise you to keep reading in order to find out how to approach and keep that sexy biker by your side.
Strategy #1 – Don’t Pressure them into anything
Easier said when done, we know, especially when you’re just starting to fall for someone and the chemistry is so strong that you just want to spend all of your time together within four walls, doing you-know-what because let’s face it – bikers are ridiculously hot. However, it is of vital importance to play it smart here so that your biker match can see that you’re giving them enough space and time. And we all know that motorcycle lovers enjoy spending every moment of their spare time on the road so you should be supportive of this particular lifestyle. And just like with everything else in life, it’s all about the compromise and it will definitely pay you off in the long run.
Strategy #2 – Accept their social side
We bet your biker match is a true social creature that simply enjoys mingling with all sorts of people at various events, where he/she can talk to other bikers for hours about motorcycle customization, parts, service, dealers etc. The most important thing here is not to be jealous but to embrace this side of theirs because it’s just what makes them who they are. On the other hand, if you dislike their friends you can at least make sure to be polite and not to reject them with your negative attitude or you’ll be out of the picture before you know it.
Strategy #3 – Join the adventure
The majority of bikers, well at least the hardcore ones, will try to live their biker lifestyle to the fullest, meaning frequent trips, rallies and all other sorts of solo and group travel. And while it’s certainly a good thing to give them alone time to blow off some steam, you can still expect invitations to various biker adventures, especially if they care about you deeply and want to share it with you. It would be great if you could just join the ride, without any questioning. Finally, these trips can be a solid base for growing your relationship even stronger, as they will give you the chance to see it for yourself what is it that makes your biker partner so satisfied and happy.
How did you manage your relationship with a biker? Can you please tell us what worked for you? Are you still dating that guy/girl? Don’t hesitate to share your experience in the comment section below!